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Thursday, 22 April 2010

Peer Pressure.

PEER PRESSURE...
Is something that every teen in the 20th centuary will come across, either by experincing it first hand or inflicting it on a fellow peer. Whether it be by, smoking, drinking, sex or even bullying we all suffer it.

I would very much like to admit that I have NEVER tried a ciggerete, I have been offered once or twice but never felt peer pressured into it. It was just being passed around and I easily refused but I no that other teens aren't that lucky to have friends or peers who can take no for an answer but I think that then if they don't accept that answer than they arn't friend worthy.

I mean in away I get it why people give in. Over 1 in 8 people in my year at school smoke and that I would say is about 102 pupils or close to. The pupils know , the janitors know, the teachers know and the passer by know but yet have done nothing to put a stop to it. The teachers see it in the morning, at break and at lunch. I mean how can they miss it it is right outside the school. Right beside the school gate and in a big crowd. They have also fallen out of some pupils pockets during class.

I have had acohol, I mean who hasn't. But I have never had a binge like my fellow peers. I have had WKD with mum or Vodka with my elder sister and also had sips of my mums drink.
My sister even trys to give me some acohol. Like one time we were on holiday with my parents and family friends. My sister (17 a the time), the family friends son (17 at the time) me (13-14 at the time) and some friends and my friends (one or Two ) were sitting in the caravan while our parents were sitting in another one and she was trying to give me these really strong vodka/strawberry shots things and so she handed it to me and I was like ok this looks like cherry-ade (genius) so as I put it to my month the ff son stopped me and flipped at my sister for giving me achohol ( I felt loved,,,, he is sort of like the big brother) and was like omg ... your stupid ( inserts my sis name) anyway the moral of the story ( .. ) i Don't have a clue tbh...


Sex is also another peer pressure. I mean I no that have the people in my year are doing it. Hell a couple of weeks ago a friend of mine thought she was up the duff ( it is always really the quite ones let me tell yah) but she seeminly lost the baby ( shame really ) and there is another friends of mine who goes of with like a different girl each lunch time in the toilets or at some girls house ( he has slept with most of the over 15s in my school apart from me and a few friends... says he doesn't want to lose a friendship) and he lost his virginity at like 12 to a 15 year old. There are also rumours flying around like mad inthe years above ours.
another thing about Sex is that the boys never get shamed. I mean if you found out your preggers you would get called a slut and all that while the boy would be given a slap on the back for laying you....




TO BE CONTINUED

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